Storied Souls Blog
“I Sat With My Body” Poem
As a lifelong reader and writer, I’ve always loved the written word. The feelings it could evoke. The way it could help me process through thoughts, emotions, and experiences that I couldn’t quite say aloud. In this poem, I share a personal look at my journey towards self-love and developing a healthier body image. I explore the pressure of perfectionism that women are so often under in our society, and how I learned to see my body as a resilient ally instead of another enemy.
When Faith Feels Like a Performance: Navigating Christian Perfectionism
You’re the first to volunteer and the last to leave, yet you’re terrified that if the world saw the real you, the performance would fall apart. This exhaustion is the hallmark of Christian perfectionism—a cycle where high-functioning anxiety and spiritual burnout overlap. This guide helps women and teen girls dismantle the pressure to be perfect by using evidence-based tools like CBT and somatic grounding to find genuine anxiety relief. Discover how to bridge the gap between your faith and your mental health so you can finally move from a put-together performance to soul-deep rest.
How to Heal from the Anxiety You’ve Learned to Hide Behind
High-Functioning Anxiety (HFA) often manifests as a relentless cycle of burnout and perfectionism. You look like the "reliable one" who has it all together, but you’re living in constant fear that one minor mistake will cause your entire life to collapse. In this post, we explore how to stop running 24/7 internal damage control and start building genuine steadiness. Learn how to use Cognitive Reframing to challenge catastrophic thinking and the 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Method to calm your nervous system. I specialize in helping women and teen girls in Texas, Arizona, and Montana move out of anxiety and into a life that doesn't require a mask.
Too Much, Too Loud, Too Fast: Navigating Sensory Overwhelm as an HSP
You aren’t being difficult, and you aren’t just too sensitive. For the 20% of the population born as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), the world doesn’t just feel loud—it feels like a physical assault. From the bone-weary exhaustion of the HSP Hangover to the paralyzing weight of decision fatigue, navigating a high-stimulus world with a sensitive nervous system requires more than just toughening up. In this post, we explore the science behind Sensory Processing Sensitivity, Dr. Elaine Aron’s D.O.E.S. framework, and the evidence-based Sensory Decompression tools you need to trade constant survival for a life of quiet steadiness and ease.
Scrolling, Comparing, and Shutting Down: The Pressure of Being a Teen Girl
Her curated life is a masterpiece; her internal life is a meltdown. While the house is quiet at 3:00 AM, her mind is consumed with the weight of social comparison and the pressure to perform. This digital "Highlight Reel" triggers a state of survival where an amygdala in overdrive physically disconnects her from her logic center. We examine the fear driving her behavior, the biological processes impacting her identity development, and the evidence-based co-regulation strategies you can use to help your daughter navigate the emotional storm and find her steady ground.
The Productivity Trap: Why Your Success Feels Like a Burden
You are winning at a game that is quietly breaking you. You lie in bed at midnight, exhausted but wired, as your mind loops through an endless scroll of tomorrow’s to-do list. On the surface, you are successful and together—but privately, you are running internal damage control just to keep the mask from slipping. When your self-worth is tied to your output, your brain acts like a Stop Sign, physically blocking the road to rest. Discover why your nervous system won't let you shut down and how to finally separate who you are from what you produce.
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